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how do i signal to ppl at my church that im veiling in a 'i'm having fun wearing lace on my head' way and not a tradfem 'women must cover their hair' way
anon this is like The Dilemma for most christians trying to veil for their own reasons and not "woman submit to husband" reasons i fear😭
unfortunately, tradfems really have reclaimed veiling in church as a type of signaling so this is pretty hard.
a way that i think you could try is trying to make your veil look less traditional. so if you're using a traditional mantilla for example, maybe secure it using some cute colorful hair pins. just little signs to show that you're not trying to play into the whole "im a traditional woman ❤️" thing. this could also involve wearing patterned scarves or bandanas, that aren't as traditional.
same thing with clothing, like i love wearing maxi skirts, but i find that the maxi skirt lace veil combo can be a Bit Much. if you're wearing pants of any kind with your veil you're less likely to give off tradwife
i will say wearing your veil occasionally outside of church can also help show you do it for yourself/non tradfem reasons
lastly, you can always veil traditionally and let your actions speak for themselves. be welcoming and non judgmental. people might come up to you thinking that you're a tradfem and you can simply explain to them that you veil for god, or bc it makes you feel good! or even say it's personal.
i know that being visibly religious can be difficult, bc we get associated with people who cause a lot of harm to others (sometimes to communities that we are a part of), but it's important that we stay strong and show that there are christians who are religious and queer and feminist and we don't feel like comprising on any part of our lives
i hope this helped and i hope that whatever you do it makes your heart happy <33
#this is such a tough situation#but i do really believe in not letting bigots speak for our faith#so if i can show to someone that hey#im visibly religious#no im not a conservative#i think that's always good#bibi responde#veiling#progressive christianity
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#i feel guilty#this is such a tough situation#i really like him and i can tell that he likes me too but i just cant be with him long term#and i feel like by being with him right now i am giving him hope even though i have explained this to him#and when i break this off i am gonna break his heart really bad and i feel so so guilty i just dont know what to do#and its even more awkward because we are gonna have to continue working together#what do i doooooo please someone tell me#he has told about me to his parents and all his friends and they really like me but i cant be with him its impossible#he is a genuinely good and kind person he does not deserve this#please i am begging someone give me advice cuz i have no one i can ask about this
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Hualian every 200 or so pages: "You are everything to me. I choose you in this life, the next one, in death and beyond. But we are, however, knee deep in blood and entrails and my sleep paralysis demon is hunting me so we have to keep things pushing."
#they just kinda touch base and move on#still deeply in love? fantastic. now for the horrors#you can get through a lot of tough situations if you have your gay little lover with you#heaven official's blessing#tian guan ci fu#tgcf#xie lian#hua cheng#hualian
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Be strong and move on
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Headcanoning the Stolls as sons of chthonic Hermes and Katie as a daughter of Demeter Erinys (Demeter when she was grieving Persephone and killing everything) is fun because
A. using the epithets gives ways to explore powers for non-big three kids (THEY ARE CHILDREN OF GODS WHY THE FUCK CAN THE HERMES KIDS ONLY OPEN LOCKS AND RUN 'FAST')
B. Demeter got another one of her daughters falling for a Chthonic dude and she does not like it.
#Let Katie be Elsa and freeze shit when she's upset Rick!#(she also has horrible seasonal depression)#(Baths [Demeter Lusia] and sticking with her deathly boyfriend who feels at home in the cold and the dying helps)#Let Travis be able to summon ghosts!#(if he doesn't have a life anchor the ghosts will drag him down with them & he can't walk past cemeteries without getting headaches)#(His girlfriend and his brother are his life anchors and they won't let him die)#Let Drew and Piper be amazing fighters and have a weaker blessing of Ares in tough situations! (Aphrodite Areia)#(They will never fit in with their siblings and the blood will forever stain their fingers like nail polish)#(they have each other if they just get along)#wolffox speaks#pjo#percy jackson#pjo headcanons#pjo headcanon#the stoll brothers#pjo Travis Stoll#Travis Stoll#katie gardner#pjo Katie Gardner#Connor Stoll#pjo Connor Stoll
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Monster (or not?)
It was a normal day for the Justice League, nothing special had happened, but Batman seemed to have a bad feeling. So when the alarm went off, he was prepared for almost anything.
Unfortunately, not much can prepare you for a 10-foot ice-covered, invincible Eldritch in the middle of Gotham. As much as the League tried, they didn't seem to do any damage to it (Jason was the first to notice that the creature wasn't attacking, just defending itself; he frowned at the observation).
From there, many strange things began to happen. First: A group of people dressed in white (which, frankly, they had never seen before in their lives) fanned out around the League, giving them weapons capable of harming the "creature" and pointing out to them that it was a "ghost", giving information about it.
Second, a pair of colorful scientists stood at the center of all the agents in white, though they seemed to be arguing with each other. One looked murderous, while the other looked... tired, almost guilty.
Third and last, a group of students kept trying to get closer. Jason thought they were suicidal until he heard the girl in purple tell them to leave "Danny" alone. She seemed to be silenced quickly, but the detail stuck in his head.
With a bad feeling, Jason turned to the college kids. A red-haired girl stood in the center of them, holding a chunk of ice? and watching the creature at the center of it all. While the League dealt with the agents in white, Jason decided to listen to them.
"He's my brother," the redhead said as soon as she saw him, "he's not a monster, they broke his core, please, you need to understand"
Jason looked at the creature again, although its body was mostly black, he could see ice covering a crystal in the center, it looked broken, he suspected that was his "core". At the same moment, Bruce finished talking to the men in white and accepted the weapons.
Danny was frightened and panicked. His form changed when his core broke in the middle of a fight, the GIW had shot him, and he didn't know how to retreat to his original form. His words came out only in Ghost speak, and the heroes around him looked ready to kill him, which didn't help his ice control.
#dpxdc#Basically the GIW broke Danny's core#and that thrilled his ghost side#which transformed into an Eldritch as a defense mechanism#Jack feels guilty#Phantom is a ghost yes but he helped them a lot of times#it doesn't feel correct to hunt him#Jason released the situation was not what it seemed at first#dp x dc#dc x dp#Martian manhunter is confused#he feels the creature in panic#but Danny's toughs are on ghost speak too#The GIW is a secret goverment organization#they usually avoid the heroes#because they know the heroes could stop their operations#Amity is isolated from the rest of the world#so the heroes doesn't know what happens there#Sadly Danny's battle happened in Gotham#he was chasing Skulker who found another “halfa”#he defeated Skulker but his parents grabbed him off guard#Skulker was chasing Jason signal btw#His friends and sister found the piece of his core and released what happened#eldritch danny
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So are we gonna talk about how it has been established that a combination of remorse and forgiveness can save someone from hell?
And, banking off of that, if Charles' dad passes away he could potentially have the power to decide wether he gets sent to hell or not.
Prior to being there himself I think he would never have forgiven him. However, after going through hell and seeing what it does to people I'd imagine someone as empathetic as him would feel like nobody deserves an eternity of that. It would be a very interesting idea to explore, the state of his trauma after 30+ years with the guilt he might feel (entirely unjustified as it may be) over having the option to save anyone from Hell and choosing not to. Especially if in this scenario his father is incredibly remorseful and begs for forgiveness.
It would be really interesting to get a parallel to the scene with Edwin and Simon, however it may play out.
#idk man i just love putting my favorite characters in tough situations#of course crystal and edwin would be like 'it's not really your choice you don't need to feel bad becauae he deserves it'#but knowing charles he would find away to beat himself up about the whole situation anyway#dead boy detectives#charles rowland#edwin payne#payneland#dbda
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Ashton really is providing great contrast to this conversation. Like, yes we need to discuss if perhaps Liliana could be swayed, that's important. But it's equally important to remember that Imogen does not know her, and that familial connection they share could nonetheless effect and manipulate Imogen in dangerous ways. They're providing that good, stark contrast to round out the conversation, and it's something that needs to be heard
#like this is TOUGH#this is such a difficult situation#but I really appreciate ashton's input there#cr spoilers#cr3e89#critical role#bells hells
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cancer-free, upstanding citizen john kramer be like "wow the company of a straight person sounds great right now!"
#or something like that#idk john kramer really is a tough nut to crack#like why is he constantly putting gay people in saw traps#and then getting gay people to assist him with it#like do the best behaved gay people get murder permissions???#or it is like a “autism be damned my boy knows how to grill” situation?#“homosexuality be damned my apprentice knows how to kill”#saw#john kramer#jigsaw#amanda young#mark hoffman#lawrence gordon#saw movies#adam stanheight#daniel matthews#lynn denlon#peter strahm
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Chat is this true or what
#this is canon#meta knight#kirby#fanart#ibispaintdrawing#susie haltmann#kirby series#Lately i been thinking on how everyone sees the mechanization of mk like if it was painful(?)like yeah i think that too#But we're talking of a freak who loves fighting#so when all the mechanization was going on he could have even ask for cool robotic wing and laser eyes😭#just saying that i love the thing of of the secuels of the mechanization on mk but also he's a tough guy#which if he doesn't have a chance against them he would take advantage of the situation 😭idk if i explained myself#ignore the rambling#kirby planet robobot#this guy thinks he's so cool :/
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still having Mental Problems, still terrified down to my bones of working on my WIPs that involve multiple scenes and plot progression, so i'm returning to my roots with a story that's more or less one long filthy extremely emotional sex scene. for comfort. like such:
Vanessa kisses Logan first, and it’s a pretty fantastic ego boost the way he just goes for it, so needy and so instantly open to anything she wants to give him. For about ten seconds, anyway, which is when he goes rigid and jerks away and looks over to her other side, at Wade. And his eyes are so fucking miserable and ashamed, if Wade doesn’t clear this shit up in the next five seconds Vanessa is going to push their faces together like Ken dolls and make kissing noises until they both get a clue.
Logan’s already apologizing when Wade grabs his hand--the way Logan automatically holds on so tight makes her heart go all weird for a second--and says, “Hey, no, it’s okay. You’re good. We--" He looks at Vanessa. She raises her eyebrows and offers no help. “We saw you from across the bar and we really like your vibe?” Wade tries.
Logan stares at him blankly, the furrow in his brow getting even deeper.
"Okay," Wade says, “I guess you’re not really up on the last ten years of memes, huh. So. Uh.” He bites his lip. Vanessa elbows him not quite hard enough to crack a rib. “Ow fuck--we want you,” he says finally, his face more open and soft than she’s ever seen it with someone else in the room besides her. Except recently, when Logan’s not looking and Wade thinks Vanessa isn’t.
#deadpool#deadpool and wolverine#poolverine#poolverinessa?#what are we going with here guys#also don't worry vanessa has a rich and fully developed inner life and her own feelings about the situation#she is not just there to make them kiss#i just haven't gotten to that part yet bc she is actually a tough nut to crack emotionally!
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Simply imagining an intimate scenario where they maintain sensual, knowing eye contact throughout their fit, no matter how intense it gets – only ever parting when they involuntarily close their eyes to sneeze – makes me unreasonably warm and giddy inside 🥰
like eeee~ even through one of the most powerful human reflexes I am unable to shake your lullful gaze
#as watery and teary as their eyes may get the fire remains unwavering 💕#not my subby ass realizing that the more in-control and focused the dom is even through a tough situation in general#the more I heccin melt#snz#snzblr#snz kink#sneeze kink#snzfucker
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If [Ja’Marr’s] coming to the sideline to tell me something, I’m gonna listen to that guy and I’m gonna throw him the ball.
PMT 2024 | AFC Championship 2022
#simply could not get this footage and that quote out of my head yesterday#the absolute trust and faith they have in one another! doing that on 4th and 6!!!#how they're both so happy to talk about it in interviews and brag about it to the world!#not to mention showing it off every chance they can on the field!#(and like i've always been struck by how gently ja'marr tells joe to pass to him here)#(like it's such a high stakes frustrating situation but they're so calm with each other)#(because they KNOW they can rely on each other when things get tough)#ANYWAY.#nothing else happened after this drive we actually won the game and the super bowl everyone just forgot#(never over it. refs were the mvp.)#joe burrow#ja'marr chase
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Thinking lately about Izuku(a civilian now) getting caught up in some Villain shenanigans(think like a random hostage situation or heist/robbery)(he is literally at the wrong place at the wrong time) and the possibilities of what could happen.
The possibilities of the civilians recognizing him and hoping for him to save them? Him doing his best to keep them all together and calm?
The possibilities of whether or not the villains recognize him or slowly start to figure it out? Do they know he's actually Quirkless now and try to take advantage of that? Or do they think he still has powers and immediately try to restrain and overpower him?
How Izuku either fights back or tries to thwart the villains? How he stays quiet at first, but is observing and analyzing the crap out of them and their Quirks?(while it's technically illegal for him to act as a hero, he also wouldn't stand down if the villains were threatening to harm any of the hostages)
If he has an actual altercation with them? And what if he gets injured? (I imagine he can hold his own reasonably well in a hand to hand fight! He still trains and is in shape, maybe even spars with Kacchan, and he has that extremely high pain tolerance! But he still gets clocked especially if he's trying to prevent them from doing harm)
And what happens when GEMG DynaMight gets to the scene. And does Katsuki know before hand that Izuku is involved of find out afterward when Izuku is released with the hostages? Or when he busts in to stop them and sees Izuku himself??
Or do the villains know enough about Izuku and Katsuki to make Izuku their primary hostage and hold Izuku hostage for some sort of ransom or deal with DynaMight?
And do they know enough to know that that's pretty much a death wish for them?
How about Izuku being just cool as a cucumber even though they're threatening DynaMight bc he knows enough about these suckers now to know that they are no match for Dynamight....much less when he is ANGRY.
Or how bout Izuku actually trying to talk them out of their dumb idea (full on teacher voice activated) because he knows they're petty criminals who are acting this way for a reason, but they shouldn't add kidnapping to their rapsheet.
DynaMight busting in and busting them, of course, and putting the fear of god into the villains whenever he is aware of Izuku being involved. He takes it personally, maybe hitting the guy holding down izuku a little harder than the others before arresting them.
What about when Katsuki gets Izuku out of there, he fusses endlessly over Izukus injuries and bloody face, and refuses to let Izuku go home by himself(he needs to be monitored for a concussion, that's all!)
I MEAN WHY HAVE WE NOT THOUGHT MORE ABOUT THIS ASPECT THERES SO MUCH POTENTIAL HERE.
If this is a fic already I really want to read it... Daniart already made an art to this theme and I saw it today, meanwhile I have definitely been pondering it for a day or two *bkdk brainmeld*
#bakudeku#while Izuku wouldnt go out looking for trouble#he would act in this situation#at the very least to protect the other civilians#we have already had a lot of Kacchan being Izukus damsel#now its time for Izuku to be Katsukis damsel!#its only fair#let izuku be Kacchans lois lane at least once is all i am asking ❤️#evn quirkless though izuku would give the villains such a hard time#hes a tough guy behind that baby face#esp if there are other hostages#post epilogue bkdk
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to me. alpha is the same as dew. alpha is dew if he never had the support of his pack.
alpha NEEDED love and compassion. but it's hard to give love and compassion to someone who lashes out at the slightest provocation.
omega tried. he DID love alpha. for a long time. but the obsession and the violence and the blaming omega for alpha's outbursts was too much.
it's hard when every negative feeling burns up inside you and comes out of your mouth as anger. and you feel out of control, because once you start you can't stop, and that terrifies you, and that just adds fuel to the fire and you just get meaner. and all you want is for him to take you into his arms and tell you it's okay, but you won't let him, and he's raising defenses against you, and he's retreating and you're digging your claws in and you're scared and desperate and you can't stand the idea of being alone
and then he leaves you. and then you're alone. you have your old pack. the first ghouls you played with, years ago, but they're not exactly the emotional type. they're cold and sharp and they keep to themselves and you tell yourself that's fine with you. you tell yourself you're fine with only ever sharing the warmth of another ghoul when you're a means to an end.
and you get meaner. and colder. and all the hurt inside you turns to steel in your gut. and you can't stand to think about the possibility that maybe, just maybe. if you'd had the love, it wouldn't be this way.
#GUHHHHH#hurts my own feelings#alpha is just. traumatized. and someones traumatized people are fucking mean. it's a defense mechanism and it's not one they choose#and it wasn't omega's responsibility to stay and continue to be hurt. it's not anyone's responsibility to fix him#it's a tough situation#but. dew could have turned out like alpha. but he had the support that alpha didnt.#dorito hc hours#dorito.txt#dorito writes#alpha ghoul
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Phandom: obviously there's child endangerment at the Fenton household, so let's write/draw content about Danny getting X ghostly parent
Me: but uh - hey guys, what about jazz?
Phandom: who?
Me: *long sigh* Danny's older sister
Phandom: oh her! Lol, she's 16, practically an adult! She's fiiiine :)
#danny phantom#jazz fenton#phandom#okay I hear you phandom#stories where ghosts adopt danny are cute#are we ignoring the minor who is also living in the same household????#yes. she acts mature.#because she HAS to.#playing the responsible adult who has a clue#except she's not. and she doesn't know what fuckery is going on because suddenly the parents she thought were insane are right about ghosts#and now her little brother is a ghost#*grabs phandom by shoulders and violently shakes*#GET. THIS GIRL. A STABLE ADULT.#y'all are sleeping on the potential here.#they did an ENTIRE cannon episode about how jazz is still a minor in a tough adult situation#and y'all missed the realization#yes it won't be the same dynamic as danny exploring his supernatural heritage through a ghost parent(s)#but come on! jazz and a ghost#almost any mentally stable ghost#EVEN BOX GHOST AND LUNCH LADY COULD ADOPT HER#Jazz would get cookies and a lifetime supply of bubble wrap#but more importantly: she wouldn't be forced to play the adult#jack and Maddie are walking out there in clown shoes ;-;#where is Jazz's found family dynamics?
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